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Life Will Be….



Cherish your life, no matter what kind of form it presents it self as, it’s a gift. ~zanelewithheart~

“Here’s the thing about human life, there’s no control group, no way to ever know how any of us would have turned out if any variables had been changed”

Moment to Reflect:
I don’t know about you, but Life has pretty much surprised me, I never thought I would be a single mother of three, let alone being divorced, actually by all means I avoided these things, followed the “right” ways of doing things, I was a church girl, got married as a virgin and was a good wife, never gave my husband any reason to leave, so what went wrong?? Life happened!! The truth is no one is immune to life,

“Everything has something to do with everything”

So what makes us to have expectations about our lives, I mean, it’s not like we have lived it before but what makes us think, things should happen this or that way? What is that, that disappoints us about life? What do we know? How do we know? According to who?

The life of expectations has taken control, we live based on certain expectations; Life should be good, life should give us what we want, life should be this, life should be that and guess what, life is life.

Then it seems, life has another agenda and often presents its self in different ways than what we expect, what we would have loved, wanted or even preferred.

What has your life presented you with, is it illness? is it Divorce?
How about you learn from it, how about you embrace it, how about you accept it like you choose it for yourself and so how about you love it, after all “life is too beautiful not to live it”!


Zanele is an Author of two upcoming books and a Wellness Consultant and Mentor. She has a sparkling personality and a strong catchy spirit and regards herself as ‘reserved extrovert’. As a mother and a friend she is tender-hearted and loving and runs a mentorship programme for pre-teens and teenagers with her daughter. She is passionate about writing/journaling, wellness, personal development and family.

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