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The IT and the BY the way…

We often get stuck on the “BY the way” and forget the “IT”.


Moment to Reflect:
Think of someone who is taking a long journey and some where along the way, they experience problems with their car, should they forget about the journey or should they fix the car and journey on? So why do we fixate on the things that are not the IT and forget about our own purpose, our own destiny? Why does our own journey has to stop, when we face challenges?  At what particular point does our challenges become the IT? How sad that we often miss this, and waste time in things that are not the IT and forget about our purpose, which is the real reason why we are here.
Our life here on earth is bigger than what we often make it up to be, as often as we sometimes make it up to be about the relationship the career or the business, what ever you can think of, as much as these things are well and good to have but they are not the IT, they are the BY the way, and unfortunately we sometimes make our lives to be all about them and forget the IT.
It’s not about the relationship, it’s about the support it can give you along your journey, it’s not about food, it’s about the nourishment that your body needs, along the way, It’s not about money, it’s about what it can buy, that you need. The greater purpose is the IT and it’s worth every challenge that we will ever come across with in our journey.
What is it going to be about?


Zanele is an Author of two upcoming books and a Wellness Consultant and Mentor. She has a sparkling personality and a strong catchy spirit and regards herself as ‘reserved extrovert’. As a mother and a friend she is tender-hearted and loving and runs a mentorship programme for pre-teens and teenagers with her daughter. She is passionate about writing/journaling, wellness, personal development and family.

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